Portland, OR family law attorney Charles Weber talks about the philosophy of his practice and shares his most common piece of advice to clients. One piece of advice that he consistently offers to clients is to bear in mind that while one party has decided to end the marriage, the other may need time to catch up emotionally. This period might involve emotional baggage or a realization that one is ahead in the processing of the decision. It’s crucial to recognize this difference in emotional processing and, at times, take a step back to allow both parties to align emotionally. This ensures clarity in thinking about what makes sense in the context of the divorce.

In guiding his practice and working with clients, the focus is on enabling informed decision-making. This involves him gathering relevant facts through interviews with the client and the opposing party, as well as collecting pertinent documents. Equipping the client with this information is essential for them to make well-informed decisions. The goal is to empower the client to make choices that make the most sense for them, as neither he nor a judge can truly understand what is best for the client without their input. His role is to provide the necessary information and support for the client to make important decisions.