Portland, OR family law attorney Charles Weber talks about the philosophy of his practice and shares his most common piece of advice to clients. He often advises his clients to remember that in a divorce, one party has made the decision to end the marriage while the other may need time to catch up emotionally. There is frequently a period in which one spouse is further along in processing the separation than the other. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing this disparity and allowing time for both parties to reach a similar emotional footing, which is critical for making clear and reasoned decisions during the divorce process.

In guiding his practice, he focuses on ensuring that his clients make fully informed decisions. This involves gathering all relevant facts through client interviews, discussions with the opposing party, and review of pertinent documents. He equips clients with this information so they can make decisions that best reflect their own interests, noting that neither he nor a judge is in a position to second-guess what is right for the client. His role is to provide clarity, context, and support so that clients can navigate the process with confidence.