New York, NY family law attorney Lisa Zeiderman gives a quick overview of the divorce process. She dicusses that the divorce process begins the moment a client schedules a consultation, whether in person, by Zoom, or over the phone. During this initial meeting, she gathers essential information about the client and their family, including the children’s relationships with each parent, co-parenting responsibilities, household dynamics, and the primary caregiver’s role in daily activities such as school, extracurriculars, and medical appointments.

She also reviews the family’s financial situation, asking about income, assets, and liabilities. While she cannot predict the outcome with certainty, she provides a realistic range based on her experience, relevant case law, and knowledge of the local courts and judges. Following the consultation, the client may choose to retain her services, and the divorce process formally begins.

Her approach simultaneously prepares for both settlement and litigation. This involves gathering documents from both parties, issuing discovery requests, conducting depositions, and assembling a settlement proposal that reflects the client’s financial needs and lifestyle. She emphasizes that entering litigation does not preclude settlement—both tracks are pursued concurrently.

Throughout the process, she manages discovery, including net worth statements, deposition notices, and court conferences. Settlement conferences are explored whenever possible to avoid the costs and stress of trial. If a settlement cannot be reached, she prepares for trial by organizing exhibits, outlining testimony, and coaching the client on courtroom expectations. Ultimately, her goal is to secure a fair resolution while guiding clients through the complexities of divorce with professionalism and clarity.