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What unique issues arise in LGBTQ+ divorces?

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my hope is that there are not
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um we thankfully thanks to
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the obergefell uh case coming from the
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supreme court
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if you are in a same-sex relationship or
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an lgbtq plus relationship
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you can get divorced just like any other
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opposite sex couple we approach
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all of our divorces the same way whether
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you are
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a member of the lgbtq community or not
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but
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i do tend to see a lot more
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special adoption issues in lgbtq
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cases a lot more cases involving
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in vitro or sperm donation
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for example if i have a same-sex couple
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two women
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i do tend to see a lot more of cases
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where there’s been
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a donation whether it be an egg donation
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or a sperm donation
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and one mother is the biological mother
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of the child
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and one parent is not the biological
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parent
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and we are getting them divorced and
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sometimes
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issues arise where one spouse decides
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that because
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the other parent is not the biological
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parent
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that they try to sever the rights of the
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child in the in the non-biological
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parent
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so i tend to see more cases like that
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with within the lgbtq plus community
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than i do
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with those who are opposite sex couples
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but it doesn’t mean that those issues
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don’t exist with opposite sex couples
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so i think the hope is that you know we
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can continue on this trend
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of not having this segregation between
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lgbtq plus community
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and uh the the opposite sex you know
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community and uh we can
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continue to treat those the same and the
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courts will continue to treat those the
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same that’s our hope

Houston, TX family law attorney Kristy M. Banda talks about the unique issues that can arise in LGBTQ+ divorces. She explains that her hope is that, over time, there will be no distinction in how family law matters are treated between LGBTQ+ couples and opposite-sex couples. Thanks to the Obergefell decision from the U.S. Supreme Court, individuals in same-sex relationships now have the same right to marry—and divorce—as anyone else. In her practice, she approaches all divorce cases the same way, regardless of the couple’s gender or sexual orientation.

That said, she notes that LGBTQ+ family law cases often present unique issues, particularly involving adoption, assisted reproduction, or sperm and egg donation. For example, in same-sex female couples, one partner is often the biological mother while the other is not. When those relationships dissolve, disputes sometimes arise if the biological parent attempts to challenge or sever the parental rights of the non-biological parent.

She observes that these complexities occur more frequently in LGBTQ+ cases, though they are not exclusive to them. Ultimately, she hopes that courts—and society as a whole—will continue to move toward full equality in how all families are treated, ensuring that LGBTQ+ families are afforded the same respect, protection, and legal recognition as any other family.

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