what I find to be most rewarding being a
divorce attorney is that I tend to meet
people at the worst time in their lives
they’re sad they may be broken they may
be angry but as we go through the
divorce process I tend to see a shift in
them they get better they get stronger
they get healthy and they’re an entirely
different person at the end of the
divorce it’s so rewarding to take that
Journey with them
so the one piece of advice that I give
to my family law clients who have
children
is this love your children more than you
dislike your spouse a lot of people
tend they don’t do it intentionally but
they tend to take out their emotions
about their soon-to-be ex-spouse on
their children and again it’s not it’s
not intentional but it happens and I
constantly find myself repeating that
line to my clients so that I can ground
them and Center them a little bit better
it really brings them back down to earth
so that they s they they stop involving
their children in the divorce because
as much as children are part of a
divorce they shouldn’t they shouldn’t be
collateral damage