my advice for people facing divorce

is to remain calm

to think in a balanced manner

to respect your spouse

and to keep the status quo that was

operating during the marriage oftentimes

these cases

unravel

because of mistrust

and a belief of something

that the one spouse is trying to get the

other spouse or that somebody’s

absconding with money or badmouthing

that parent to the kids

and those are the things that cause the

marriage or the divorce process to

become more complicated

longer

and more expensive

if you respect your spouse

as a human being notwithstanding what

they may or may not have done during the

marriage

you will have a much smoother divorce

and one that will be done faster and

more to your satisfaction