St. Paul, MN family law attorney Lindsey O’Connell shares the advice she gives clients who are fighting for custody of their children in a Minnesota divorce. He often finds himself repeating a couple of key points to clients involved in custody disputes. First, he emphasizes the importance of honesty—credibility is everything in these cases. Clients need to be forthright with the court, mediators, and their co-parent.

The second piece of advice he frequently gives, which clients may either love or hate, is to take the high road. It can be challenging, especially when the other party is being antagonistic, but responding in kind rarely helps. Maintaining integrity not only strengthens the client’s position in the court’s view but also fosters a healthier relationship dynamic in the long term.