to modify custody to the extent that the

parties cannot agree

would be to file an application with

either family court or supreme court

stating the circumstances by which the

parties or one party wants to reor

reorganize the custody

the other way to do it is if the parties

can agree to it is to have an agreement

drawn up

as to how the new custody arrangements

will be and that agreement after it’s

signed

is sent to the court to be so what we

call so ordered meaning converted into

an order of the court

so that the custody is then quote

unquote official and recognized for

child support purposes