Portland, OR family law attorney Shawn Menashe talks about what a potential client can expect at an initial consultation. He explains that during an initial consultation, clients should expect to leave with enough information to make a fully informed decision about how they wish to proceed. A consultation is unique because, at that stage, there is no formal attorney-client relationship; however, it is still protected under attorney-client privilege, ensuring confidentiality and creating a safe space for open discussion. Under Oregon’s conflict laws, he cannot meet with the opposing party, which removes outside pressure and allows the client to speak freely.

During the consultation, he typically outlines the legal process in general terms and then explains how it could apply to the client’s specific circumstances. He also addresses substantive issues and ensures all questions are answered before concluding. He reminds clients that the consultation is not a one-time opportunity—some individuals meet with him multiple times before making a decision. He emphasizes that the consultation is also a chance for clients to interview him as a potential resource and professional guide.

He often encourages clients to meet with two or three attorneys before deciding who to retain. After two decades of practice, he knows that most attorneys at this level possess deep legal knowledge. What often makes the difference in family law cases, however, is the attorney’s personality, character, and approach. Because divorce and custody matters can be challenging regardless of the circumstances, he believes it is critical for clients to find a lawyer whose style and demeanor resonate with them. Those qualities, paired with years of experience, are often the most important factors in choosing the right legal representation.